Tips for Getting the Most Out of Your Newborn Portrait Session
I couldn’t be more excited to be capturing your newborn portraits, the most precious moments of you and your family. It’s a big deal! You’re trusting me to photograph a moment in time you won’t ever want to forget. Those first few weeks with your new baby are so precious and fleeting, and this is the exact reason why newborn photography is so important - it’s a chance to capture the moments your tired eyes may not fully remember.
If you’d like to get the most out of your newborn session, here are my 7 top tips for newborn portraits that you need to know:
1. Perfect your styling
What you wear during your newborn portraits photoshoot is SUPER important. Before your shoot, I will send you a welcome guide with lots of advice and inspiration on what to wear and how to style each member of your family.
For your beautiful baby - I have it all covered. You don't need anything. At this tiny stage clothes tend to swamp your beautiful baby. We will have them swaddled up in one of my beautiful newborn wraps or shawls, or with a beautiful knitted nappy cover on for some unwrapped portraits or naked. Your beautiful baby is perfect just as they are.
When dressing your baby to arrive at the studio, pop them in an outfit with zips or buttons at the front so that we can transfer baby straight onto my beanbag, avoiding anything we have to pull over their head.
For mamas, I have a range of beautiful dresses picked specifically for mums in those postpartum weeks. You are very welcome to borrow any of these during your session. Please have a look at what’s available here. I am only an email away if you need any help with clothing options. If bringing something from your own wardrobe, soft pastels, neutral and white work perfectly. Think about textures for a little bit of detail - linen, muslins, lace, embroidery and knitted fabrics are ideal. Midi and maxi dresses work wonderfully for newborn portraits.
For siblings and dads, dress them in simple colours, often pastels and muted neutrals work really well, so that the focus remains on your beautiful family and your connection. We don't want the clothes to overwhelm. Dress as if you are heading out to a lovely Sunday lunch. Not too dressy, but not too casual. Avoid logos and graphics, but prints and textures can work beautifully. Again think linen, muslins, ribbed fabrics and subtle embroidery for textures.
2. Bring the essentials
As an experienced newborn photographer, I have almost everything you could need at my studio. However, there are a few things that it’s useful for you to bring:
• Feeding and changing essentials with spare everything (nappies, milk etc)
• Snacks in case you get peckish!
• For siblings, bring some small toys or books to keep them occupied, and an iPad with their favourite pre-downloaded tv show for after their photos! It can be a long time to ask little ones to sit and wait for their new sibling to have their photos.
3. Something sentimental
Do you have a favourite teddy, or a blanket knitted by Grandma or the blanket that you were brought home from the hospital in? If so, bring it! I love to include something extra in your images to add that personal touch.
4. Prepare to be present
There are very few times in life when we are completely switched off from the outside world and totally present with our children – make your newborn portrait session one of those. Take this time to breathe them in, enjoy them, be present, and remember why you’re doing this. You’re preserving memories, making your kids feel loved and adored. No expectations, no worries about the end result, pick your outfits and turn up – I’ll handle the rest.
Be up for doing silly things, playing games and having fun. The best sessions are the ones where mum and dad get involved, creating all those natural smiles that we love.
5. Controlling small humans
I love having siblings at newborn shoots! However, as a parent myself I know some parents feel apprehensive about bringing them along, and I’m often asked “but what if they don’t behave?!” Well , I don’t expect them to! Children are wild and that’s part of their magic. I am a pro when it comes to getting older siblings involved, however there are a couple of things you can do to help me along the way.
Firstly, try not to over prep your older children. Mention to them that we’re going to take some photos of their new sibling, and that I will of course need their assistance. But you don't need to do much more than this. I keep the session simple and relaxed. I don't ask anyone to "say cheese" or "smile". I will create little games that create those beautiful moments naturally.
Please do not worry, I don’t expect your little ones to be perfectly behaved or for them to sit still either. I’m here to tailor the session to their individual personalities, engage their attention and create natural photos with no stress, so don’t be afraid to relax with them and go with the flow.
I always try to get the photos with big siblings first up, then if they need to go for a little walk with Dad whilst we capture those moments with just your newborn, they can be excused for a little while.
6. Work out where you’re going
Within all of your prep information, I will send you the address of the studio. It’s a good idea to pop this into Google Maps before the day of your shoot, so that you have an idea of where you’re going, how long it will take and you’re less likely to get lost!
Please arrive no more than 5 minutes early for your session. If you’re going to be late, don’t stress! Please just let me know via text if you’re running behind – I will send you my phone number before your shoot. I know what it is like trying to leave the house with a newborn. That poo explosion happens just as you are about to step out the door. Please don't stress. Just let me know when to expect you.
7. Prepare in advance
In order to make arriving at your newborn shoot go as smoothly as possible, I recommend packing a bag with your outfits and everything else you might need before you give birth to your baby. This means that when the day of your shoot arrives you can simply roll out of bed, grab the baby and go!
Ok I’m kidding, we all know it’s totally not that simple getting out the door with a newborn!! But being prepared in advance will give you one less thing to have to worry about on the day. You can literally arrive at the studio in your PJs and bring your makeup with you.
I’m all about making the process as relaxing and stress free as possible for you and your family.
I hope these tips for newborn portraits help to set your mind at ease and prepare you for your session. I am always here to answer any questions you might have and to help with anything you might need.
If your shoot is coming up soon, I can’t wait to meet you and your new arrival! Thank you for trusting me with your memories.
Why Baby Portraits are Gorgeous at Every Age
Before the years of Covid-19 Lockdowns here in Sydney, I predominately photographed babies who were under 2 weeks of age. This is the newborn photographers "magic age" as newborns at this age are at their most sleepy, they're most curly, and they're most tiny.
But after a 4 month lockdown all the newborn babies I had scheduled in whilst we were in lockdown and unable to work, grew quite a lot! In the months after reopening and being able to shoot again, I photographed babies aged from 10 days to 4 months old, and every single session was beautiful, precious and so worth capturing. I loved what every baby, every family brought into my studio, and I loved capturing their unique and precious family memories.
Even before lockdown I would never turn away a client whose baby was not within the magic "2 weeks of age" for portraits (which I know some other newborn photographers will). In fact, many clients with Chinese heritage would come to celebrate their babies 100 days of life post confinement. Other clients came to me when their baby was a couple of months old, after a difficult first few months or after spending time in the NICU and still wanted to capture the newness of their beautiful baby. Some clients just preferred to wait until baby was more awake, more alert and more interactive. Baby portraits are gorgeous at every age.
I came into photography capturing my own babies, and I know how quickly they change, how much they grow in those first few months, how precious they are and how important those photos are, at every single age and stage.
So if you had a baby during lockdown, if you missed those magic 2 week old portraits, if you decided you would prefer to wait for portraits until your baby was a little older, even if your baby is already sitting, crawling or walking, get in touch. Book in for a baby shoot. Don't feel like you have missed out. Don't put it off any longer. I would love to photograph your baby, your family, no matter what age your baby is. Because baby portraits are gorgeous at every age.
Book in your baby session today!
How to Choose the Right Photographer for You
When you first decide that you want to get some family photos taken - whether that is for a new baby coming into your lives, celebrating a milestone birthday, or because your kids just keep growing so quickly - you will very soon realise that you have plenty of photographers to choose from! So how do you decide which photographer is going to best suit you, your family and your needs? There is the added pressure if it is a milestone session like a pregnancy, newborn, birth, or birthday that you may only have one chance to get it right!
So let's talk about how you can find the right photographer for you and get it right!
First Impressions Count
At first glance, you have gone on Facebook or Instagram, jumped on a few websites, asked your friends for referrals even. Now it’s time to review those photographer’s portfolios to assess their style and see if they align with your preferences. You need look at the different elements to find those that meet your own requirements and preferences:
- Location - Outdoor sessions (Beach, Parks, Urban, Gardens, etc.) or In Studio sessions
- Aesthetics - Light, bright and vibrant images vs Darker, moody and more dramatic images.
- Image Style - Candid, Posed, the client looks comfortable, and the range & type of images
- Look and feel of the Business - Branding, Colours, Messaging (do you connect with what they are saying), Do they have a website, are they accredited, reviews, great quality of work, your location, etc.
- Consistency in images quality and style
Once you have this initial look and you will have a few photographers on your short list and it is time to reach out them. Now it's time to narrow it down to the details. But you aren't really sure what you need to ask. Hence the saying - ”You don’t know what you don’t know.”
Here are some factors to consider when selecting your family photographer:
Personal Connection
For me, this is one of the most important factors! It’s essential to feel comfortable and have a good rapport with your chosen photographer. A personal connection can contribute to a more enjoyable and successful photoshoot. I know in the sessions I have had with my own kids, they loved their photographer every time. They connected right away, laughed, giggled, and it made the session super fun. As a newborn photographer, you need to make sure you are completely comfortable with your choice of photographer and trust them with your new baby.
Family shoots can sometimes be chaotic, especially when working with young children. A patient and friendly photographer who can connect with your family members (from toddlers to teenagers) and make them feel at ease will be able to capture more authentic and relaxed moments.
Good communication is crucial when working with a family photographer. Ensure they are responsive, listen to your ideas and preferences, and are open to discussing your vision for the shoot. A photographer who communicates effectively will be better equipped to capture the essence of your family. This is super important if you have children or members who have certain quirks or personalities. ie, is shy, overwhelmed easily, or have additional needs.
This is why it’s ESSENTIAL to CALL YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER! Yes you can DM or email, but you need to pick up the phone and SPEAK to them. As you will discover very quickly if you gel or not. Equally important is to call them back if you miss their call.
Once you have connected then check the photographer’s availability and ensure they can accommodate your preferred date and time.
Recommendations and Reviews
This is one of the key factors that people look for when seeking recommendations from friends, family, or trusted sources who have worked with a family photographer before. Additionally, read online reviews and testimonials to gauge the photographer’s reputation and the satisfaction of their past clients.
These can be found on Facebook as recommendations or on Google reviews. Make sure you read the comments- the good, the bad and the ugly. You will quickly get a “feel” for the photographer when keywords keep coming up, “They made us feel so comfortable” “Our kids had so much fun with our photographer Bree”.
LifeStyle or Posed
Certain photographers specialize in the “Lifestyle” approach, which involves capturing candid and natural images. These sessions have a fluid and storytelling nature, aiming to document the precious moments shared between family members. The photographer focuses on showcasing the connections and relationships within the family, incorporating a variety of combinations. Whether it’s capturing the tender moments between a parent and child or the energetic dynamics of siblings, the goal is to reflect the unique personalities and connections within the family. The session may include a mix of close-up shots and environmental portraits, particularly when outdoors, to highlight the location’s significance.
On the other hand, some photographers specialize in posed and formal portraits. These sessions typically involve a more structured approach, with the photographer meticulously crafting and positioning each pose to perfection. The focus is on creating artfully composed portraits with precise attention to detail.
It’s worth noting that a session can incorporate elements from both styles. By communicating your preferences and desired outcomes, you can work with the photographer to strike the right balance between candid and posed images that best reflects your family dynamics and individual personalities.
The Photographers Experience
When selecting a photographer, it is important to find someone with specific experience in the genre you wish to be photographed. While a generalist photographer may excel in various genres, collaborating with a specialist in your desired genre generally yields better results. For instance, when it comes to family photography, the dynamics can be complex, and an experienced photographer understands how to work with children, manage group shots, and capture genuine emotions. Similarly, professional and experienced newborn photographers have done extensive training on safe handling and posing of newborn babies to ensure your precious baby is safe and comfortable throughout the session.
Experience holds significant value. With 10 years of photographing families, I have encountered and successfully navigated through a wide range of situations. This allows me to problem-solve swiftly and adapt to any circumstance, always prioritizing the best outcome for the individuals I am photographing. Such insight is acquired over time through practical experience.
Therefore, when considering a photographer, be sure to inquire or read their bio to learn who will be the actual photographer on the day of the session. If they are part of a photography “company,” ask specifically about the assigned photographer for your session to ensure you are aware of and comfortable with the individual who will be capturing your photos.
Location and Setting
Take into consideration whether you have a preference for an outdoor shoot at a specific location or an indoor shoot in a studio or your own home. It is important to discuss your desired locations and settings with the photographer to ensure they can accommodate your preferences.
It is worth noting that most photographers have their preferred and carefully chosen locations, kept confidential for the best possible outcomes considering the lighting conditions and suitable time of day for the genre being photographed. These locations are selected based on their suitability for the desired aesthetic and ambience. Therefore, it is considered inappropriate to contact photographers solely to inquire about their secret locations and then proceed to book another photographer.
Indoor studio sessions typically take place within the photographer’s studio or home studio, where everything is set up and readily available, including props, dresses, and equipment. This controlled environment offers a warm, cozy, and homely atmosphere for the shoot. However, for a more lifestyle and photojournalistic approach, some photographers may offer sessions in the comfort of your own home. You will need to discuss lighting options with your photographer when choosing your own home as a location.
If you are unsure about what would best suit your family, discuss this with your photographer who can guide you through different options to help you make the best decision.
The Photography Experience
You will quickly see that not all photographers work the same, there is no right or wrong way. Many photographers will offer a full photography experience as well as the opportunity at set times of the year to book in for a mini session. Deciding which experience will suit you best is important:
The Full Photography Experience Encompasses a comprehensive approach, starting with a design consultation to carefully plan the entire session and determine the desired outcome. During this consultation, discussions will revolve around various aspects such as location selection, clothing colours and choices, specific images and personalities to capture, and the involvement of different family members and their ages. Additionally, there will be a focus on understanding your goals for the session and what you ultimately wish to achieve. The photographer aims to shoot with the end products in mind, ensuring that the images created align with your vision.
While you may not have a precise idea of what you want, it is the photographer’s responsibility to help uncover your preferences and create something special and unique specifically tailored to you.
Once the photography session is completed, your photographer will guide you through purchasing your images, artworks and albums either in the comfort of your own home via an online gallery viewing or by coming back to their studio.
The Mini Session Experience typically refers to a brief 10-20 minute photography session, which is often priced significantly cheaper than a full photography experience. It follows a quick and efficient approach, capturing a few shots within the allotted time frame and then concluding the session. The process may involve an immediate selection of images on the spot or receiving a link at a later time to choose your desired photos. Mini sessions are commonly offered for specific occasions such as Christmas, Mother's Day, popup sessions, and similar events. It is important to note that experience plays a crucial role in successfully executing mini-sessions, as the photographer must work efficiently within the limited time available to capture meaningful shots and deliver a satisfying outcome. Mini sessions are usually at a prescribed time with a photographer and it is seen as discourteous to ask a photographer for an ad hoc mini session. Mini sessions do not usually involve consultation with the photographer about what to wear, specific details about your family or personalised props and locations.
Inclusions for the photography experience – Props, Equipment, Dresses, Hair and Make-Up, Outfits
It is advisable to inquire with your photographer regarding their provision of props, blankets, equipment, dresses, outfits, and other related items. Each photographer has their own approach and perspective on this matter. Some may have an extensive collection and setup to offer you a range of options to wear and use during the session. Conversely, others may encourage you to bring your own items, ensuring a more personalized touch that aligns with your unique story and style. Therefore, it is recommended to ask your photographer about the available options to determine what works best for you.
What do you want?
If you have specific ideas or preferences in mind, it is essential to communicate them to the photographer rather than waiting until after the images are delivered to express any missed shots. By proactively sharing your vision and desires, you can ensure that the photographer understands your expectations and can work towards capturing the desired images.
If there is a particular image that you truly desire, it is highly encouraged to inform your photographer explicitly. Avoid leaving it to interpretation.
For example, if you have a specific shot in mind of your kids looking at the camera with their big brown eyes, with nice smiles while standing up, it is crucial to communicate this to the photographer. As the photographer, they may have intended to capture the kids in a more natural setting with laughter and giggles.
Another example is I wanted an iconic wide shot, environmental landscape family portrait walking along on our local beach. The photographer could of just captured an image of us sitting down together at the beach in the long grass.
However, if the shot you envision is different from their approach, it is important to let them know by requesting, “Can we make sure we capture this specific style of shot, please?”
Open communication between you and your photographer is key to ensuring that your expectations are met and that the final images reflect your desired vision.
Printing your Digital files
It is crucial to exercise caution as a buyer. It’s important to note that these digital images are often calibrated specifically for the screens of the photographer and their preferred print labs. Consequently, when you print the images yourself at other print labs or through department stores, there is a higher chance of variations in terms of brightness, darkness, colour shifts (such as more blue, magenta, or yellow), and overall quality.
This is precisely why it is highly recommended to print your images with your photographer. While it may be more expensive than using a department store or generic print lab, the benefits are significant. Printing with your photographer ensures that the images are produced using their preferred print lab, which is calibrated to accurately represent the intended colours, tones, and overall look of the photographs. The investment in professional printing services provided by your photographer is undoubtedly worthwhile, as it guarantees the highest quality and fidelity to the original image.
By opting to print with your photographer, you can be confident that the final printed products will accurately reflect the artistic vision and intent behind the images, resulting in a superior and more satisfying outcome.
What are you going to do with your images?
As a client, you may have a clear vision of what you want and where you intend to display the photographs in your home. Alternatively, you may have no specific ideas and simply desire all the digital files. In either case, it is the responsibility of your photographer to ask the appropriate questions to understand your preferences and help guide you in making decisions. This information is crucial as it will influence the way the photographer approaches the session, considering the intended end products.
By asking the right questions, the photographer can gain insights into your desired outcomes, allowing them to tailor their approach and capture images that align with your vision. Whether you have specific ideas or require guidance, the photographer’s role is to facilitate the process and ensure that the photography session is conducted in a manner that best serves your preferences and intended use of the images. It is important to note that any questions asked be answered fully and in a timely manner before your session to ensure both you and your photographer as best prepared on the day.
For instance, let’s consider a recent session I had with my own family . I had a clear idea of wanting a collection of images showcasing the relationships within our family - each parent with each child, which would be displayed around our dining room table as white framed artworks of various sizes and orientations. Additionally, I desired an album to encompass all the other images captured during the session.
Session Fee / Booking Fee
Most photographers will require a session fee, booking fee, or retainer to secure your booking and confirm your intention to proceed with the session. This fee is separate from any finished products or files and covers the photographer’s time and expertise. Occasionally, you may come across special offers that include additional items. This arrangement allows you to have the session and make your selections for images and artwork after the session has taken place.
However, it’s worth noting that some photographers operate differently and may ask you to select and pay for a package/collection or artwork upfront, eliminating the need for a separate session fee. This approach streamlines the process, ensuring that all aspects, including the session and chosen products, are arranged and paid for in advance.
Pricing, Packages, Finished Wall Art and Albums.
Navigating through the various photography package options can sometimes feel overwhelming. It is essential to comprehend the inclusions of each package, such as the number of edited photos, prints, or albums, and ensure that it aligns with your budget.
To simplify this process, here is a breakdown:
All-inclusive: With this option, you pay a single amount and receive the agreed-upon number of fully edited and retouched images in digital format.
Packages/Collections: You will typically have a selection of 3-5 package options to choose from. Each package offers different quantities of images along with various additional items. These items may include loose prints, printed products, print credits that can be applied towards finished wall art, bespoke albums, and more.
Finished Artwork: Most Professional Photographers will have a selection of finished artwork for you to choose from. These products are sourced from the highest quality professional print labs and may include traditional frames, torn edge or glassless frames, canvas or boxed canvas, metal or wood art, and bespoke albums.
Understanding what your photographer offers and the differences between the products will help you make an informed decision about the type of package or finished artwork that best suits your preferences and requirements.
These options will also determine the price of your photography session with the desired outcome.
Please Note: The “Price” is in the creation, time, telent, skills, quality of service, insurance, editing, equipment, etc. So your “files” are the finished product and will be price accordingly.
Timing and delivery of images and products
The turnaround time for your images will vary depending on the type of photography session you have. Some photographers may be able to provide your images within a few days, while others may take a few weeks. It is recommended to inquire about the expected timeframe when discussing your session with the photographer.
When it comes to finished artwork, the production time is typically around 2-6 weeks. This timeframe may vary depending on the specific products chosen and the time of year (end of year is always far busier), as some may be sourced locally while others may be sourced from overseas.
It’s important to consider these factors and discuss the estimated timeline with your photographer to have a clear understanding of when you can expect to receive the final artwork.
Contracts, Terms and Insurance
Before finalising your decision, review the photographer’s contract or terms of service. Ensure you understand the rights to the photos, any additional fees, cancellation policies, and any other important details. Also asked if they are insured too.
In summary…
Choosing the right professional photographer is a significant decision that involves considering several key factors.
- First and foremost, reviewing the photographer’s portfolio and understanding their style is crucial to ensure it aligns with your preferences.
- Experience in their genre of photography, along with positive recommendations and reviews, speaks to the photographer’s ability to work with diverse dynamics and capture genuine emotions.
- Effective communication and a personal connection with the photographer are essential for a successful photoshoot experience.
- Discussing location options, props, and clothing choices allows for customization and a better understanding of what to expect.
- Understanding the pricing structure and packages offered is important to determine if they fit within your budget and desired outcomes.
By taking these factors into account, you can confidently select a professional family photographer who will capture beautiful moments, create lasting memories, and deliver a personalised and enjoyable experience for you and your loved ones.
Checklist of questions you can ask your photographer
Here is a list of questions you can ask your photographer to get a better understanding of their products and services. You don’t have to ask them all just the ones that apply to you.
- Where are you located?
- What’s your availability?
- How many images will I receive from my session?
- How soon will I receive the images or artwork from my session?
- Are you the Photographer photographing us?
- Can I purchase artwork from you or do I have to purchase it on my own?
- How long have you been photographing in your genre?
- What happens if I need to reschedule?
- Do you offer payment plans?
- Do you have a client closet?
- For maternity – can my partner and kids join?
- For newborn - are you training in newborn safety?
- What should I be bringing to a session?
- What do you bring to a session?
- How do I best prepare my family for our session?
- What time of day do you recommend for my family?
- What do you suggest for clothing choices?
- What are your suggestions about locations?
- How long does the photography session go for?
- Do you have a Working with Children Check?
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What happens if it rains on the day of our session?
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When do I get my images back?
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Do I choose the images or does the photographer?
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How far in advance do I need to make a booking?
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Do I have to sign a contract? What if I don’t want my photos on social media?
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How many outfits can we bring?
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What colors should we wear/ not wear?
Favourite Dad Poses
Favourite Dad Poses
When it comes to Dad's and newborn babies, a lot of Dad's feel head-over-heels in love, but also a little overwhelmed, at a loss as to what they can do, and sometimes terrified. I see so many Dad's come into my studio with their adored newborn, but just not quite sure how the photo shoot is going to go, what they are going to do, and feel really awkward in front of the camera.
It is my job to make them feel relaxed, at ease, and help them love the experience. There is nothing better for me, then when a Dad says at the end of the session, "Wow that was so much better than I thought it was going to be. I felt really relaxed even though I was dreading this."
So here are a few of my go-too-Dad-poses for a newborn session. They are my favourites for a number of reasons, they are simple, they show so much connection between a Dad and a Newborn, they involve little movement which helps Dad's feel more at ease, and they perfectly show the contrast in size between a Dad and his new baby.
- Dad kissing baby whilst baby is lying on the bean bag - This is a perfect pose to start for Dad's who are little nervous, as the baby is already posed and settled on the bean bag. All Dad has to do is come over to the bean bag, lean over and interact with their baby. I use prompts such as, "Kiss your baby; smell that babies beautiful head; touch your nose to babies nose; think about one thing you cannot wait to teach your baby; close your eyes and breath that baby smell in." This pose can work with baby wrapped or unwrapped, posed on their back or on their tummy.
- Kisses with baby in Dad's arms - Again this is a great one for Dad's who are feeling unsure, awkward or a little nervous. Baby can be wrapped or unwrapped and it is an easy transition from baby on the bean bag to Dad's arms. I make sure I place baby quite high up in Dad's arms so that Dad can easy turn his face down towards his baby to kiss and interact with his baby. Again I use prompts such as, "Kiss your baby; smell that babies beautiful head; touch your nose to babies nose; think about one thing you cannot wait to teach your baby; close your eyes and breath that baby smell in." If baby is awake and settled this pose can lend itself to some beautiful interactions between Dad and Baby. This pose works well if baby is wrapped or unwrapped, and again shows that beautiful contrast between Dad's hands and the tininess of their new baby.
- Holding Baby against Dad's chest - Some Dad's find this a really natural way to hold their baby and others can really struggle. But when it works it is just beautiful. Make sure that baby is nice and high on Dad's chest, just below his chin ensuring that Dad can interact with Baby from above with kisses and snuggles. This is also a great pose to bring Mum in on once you have some photos of Dad alone with Baby, and Mum can come in to cuddle with Dad and Baby.
- Baby up on Dad's shoulder - this is the burping pose many Dad's naturally put their babies into after a feed. It works well in just this instance during a session when Baby has had a feed and needs a little burp. Again it can work well for awake or asleep babies and really captures the connection between Baby and Dad.
- Hands - Tiny baby hand or toes and large Dad hand or finger, or just Dad's big hands on their tiny baby. I love the contrast of these poses and for the very reluctant Dad they are perfect as the focus is purely on their hands.
Those are my favourite poses for Dad's with newborns. Of course, there are a whole host of other poses which I do with Dad and Mum, with Dad and older siblings, and some others with just Dads and their babies but these are my go-too-poses in nearly every session. I think there is something simple, beautiful and natural about these poses, leaving the focus on the beautiful connections and bonds between these new Dad's and their new babies.
Book in for your newborn session today.
What if my kids won't sit still?
As a mum of energetic kids I totally get that Mum’s are nervous about how their kids are going to behave during their families portrait session. I too have faced this anxiety on the other side of the camera. My advice – leave it to me. I have been photographing families for 10 years (& I have been a Mum for 15!) and I know that keeping kids engaged, having fun and not “sitting still and smiling at the camera” are the key to capturing your family in a unique and authentic way.
The key for me is play. I use play throughout my sessions to engage kids and capture the natural connections and love that are your family. We usually start all sitting together, snuggled up close and play whispering games, family guessing games or animal noise games to capture some sweet close ups and lots of laughs. Then we move onto more active games -running games, jumping games, hugging games or playing with bubbles.
I came to family photography through photographing my own children, and I never got an authentic, beautiful smile by asking my kids to “smile at the camera”. And I will not get it from your kids that way either.
Even Dads often need “something to do” in order to relax and feel comfortable in front of the camera.
Here are my tips as a mum, and photographer, about the best way to prepare you family for the photo session:a
1. Talk to your kids about the session.
Before the session, make sure you explain to your kids that you are going to have family photos. And explain why – maybe it is someones birthday, a special milestone, coming up to Christmas or just because everyone keeps growing so quickly. Maybe you already know that you want a new family photo for the wall, tell you kids this.
Then explain to them what’s going to actually happen during the session. Where are you going? Are you going to be in a studio or by the beach? How long is the session going to last? And is there a reward waiting for them when it is over (I am all for a little bribery).
2. Preparation and expectations.
Arrive with everyone dressed and ready for the session. Trying to change kids into a different outfit when you arrive for the shoot can be the difference between a toddler who is excited to be part of the photos and one who refuses because their favourite t-shirt just got taken off them. If it is cold and we are shooting outdoors, make sure that kids have enough layers on so that they are warm and comfortable. Cold kids are unhappy kids.
When my clients arrive I start by telling my families that we are going to have some photos, but more importantly we are going to play some games together as a family. Depending on the age of the children, I am usually explaining this directly to them, rather than to the parents.
I explain that there are going to be some photos of everyone together as a family, some of everyone sitting together cuddling, some of everyone up and about playing, some of just the kids together and then some of the kids by themselves.
I explain to them that even though we are going to play some games, they need to listen to what the I ask them to do so that our games are the most fun and the photos the best they can be.
3. Keep it short and simple.
My sessions usually last between 45 – 60 minutes. And never longer. Young kids have short concentrations and I would never expect them to be cooperating and concentrating for that whole time. The exception to this is for an in studio newborn session which can last 2-3 hours. In which case older children can either be taken home or for a walk after their part of the session if over, or even taken to school or daycare.
Reassure them that it will be fun.
4. Reassure Dads
I find the most nervous person is quite often dad. Dad’s feel nervous about having to smile and be told what to do. He has often been dragged along as well. So giving him something physical to do during the shoot is important. Playing with his kids, tickling, chasing and cuddling are all great prompts for reluctant and nervous dads.
5. Relax.
An experienced photographer is used to dealing with kids that don’t sit still . I have lots of tricks that I know that will help the process go smoothly.
If you get stressed your kids know you’re stressed.
Relax and enjoy Your session.
Watch your kids interacting with each other, watch them interacting with the photographer.
Having a photo session is about creating memories of this age of your kids. Enjoy those moments of the session as they happen. Enjoy those little quirks that make your kids who they are. Let me engage with your kids and capture their individual personalities.
6. Do Not Tell Your Kids to Smile.
Most importantly don’t tell them to smile. Kids often have that awful fake smile especially when aged between 5 and 10 years old. As a photographer I have lots of tricks to get them to laugh. And it will be far more natural than asking them to smile at the camera.
Mums Need to be in Photos Too!
As a devoted mother, you consistently shoulder the mental load of your family’s well-being. From packing lunches and washing clothes to orchestrating family activities and managing schedules, you effortlessly handle it all.
However, there is a small drawback. Since mothers tend to be the ones immersed in these tasks, they often find themselves behind the lens, capturing precious moments. While having countless photographs of your children is undeniably delightful, it means that you, dear mum, are not present in many of them. In fact, you may even consciously evade being caught on camera due to personal insecurities.
But it’s time to change that. You deserve to be on the other side of the camera, in amongst the beauty of your family, the family you created. Let me explain why.
YOUR CHILDREN DESERVE THE MEMORIES
It may be difficult to contemplate, but there will come a day when you won’t be here anymore. And when that time arrives, all your children will have left are the photographs of you. They will yearn to revisit those cherished moments and see your radiant smile, just the way they remember it.
However, if you consistently stay behind the scenes, rarely stepping in front of the lens, they will be left with only a handful of glimpses capturing the essence of who you truly were. These shared moments, these significant milestones, deserve to be documented with you in the midst of them, not just hiding out behind the camera.
Think about the joy your children will experience when they stumble upon these treasured family portraits, brimming with love and togetherness. Let them see the way you embraced every special occasion, the way you radiated warmth and affection. By being present in these photographs, you ensure that your children will forever hold on to the memories of a remarkable mother who played an irreplaceable role in their lives.
Step into the frame, and let your children witness the love and happiness that surrounded them throughout their lives. They deserve to have enduring memories of you, a source of comfort and joy for years to come.
YOU WANT TO TEACH YOUR DAUGHTER TO LOVE HERSELF AND YOUR SONS AS WELL
As a mother, it is your profound desire to instill a sense of self-love within your children. In our society, it becomes even more crucial to teach your daughter the importance of loving herself, as she will inevitably face societal pressures to conform to narrow standards of beauty, perpetually emphasising the need to be thinner, younger, and more conventionally attractive. What she truly needs is to witness your unwavering confidence and self-love, regardless of whether you fit into society’s limited definition of beauty. In fact, it is especially crucial for her to witness your self-love if you don’t conform to those societal ideals. And your sons need to see this too so that they grow up valuing and loving the women in their lives just as they are.
Each time you shy away from the camera or recoil from the flash, a subtle message is conveyed to your daughter—a message that you don’t deem yourself worthy of being captured in the frame, that you don’t perceive yourself as beautiful. Is that the lesson you genuinely want to impart to your children?
Instead, offer your children the invaluable gift of lasting memories and demonstrate the astounding beauty that resides within each and every one of you. Consider scheduling a family photo shoot with a skilled professional family photographer who understands how to showcase your family’s unique charm and ensure everyone looks their absolute best. Through this experience, you will not only cherish the memories being created but also provide your children with a timeless visual reminder of their own beauty, inside and out.
Let your daughter witness your self-acceptance, embracing your own unique features and radiating genuine confidence. Show your sons the importance of appreciating and respecting women for who they are, beyond societal standards. By actively participating in family portraits, you inspire a powerful lesson—that self-love is a treasure worth embracing, that beauty transcends societal expectations, and that your children are worthy of capturing in the frame alongside their remarkable mother.
In the years to come, as your children grow and perhaps start families of their own, they will fondly look back on these cherished portraits. The memories they evoke will remind them of the profound love and acceptance they experienced as part of a family that celebrated their individuality and encouraged self-love.
So, Mums, embark on this journey of self-love and family portraits, hand in hand with your children. Together, you will create a legacy of beauty, strength, and unwavering love that will endure for generations to come.
Best Northern Beaches Locations
The Northern Beaches of Sydney are renowned for their natural beauty, pristine coastline, and picturesque settings, making them an ideal backdrop for unforgettable family portraits. In this ultimate guide, we will explore the best locations in Sydney’s Northern Beaches for your family portrait session. From golden sandy beaches to rocky headlands and lush parks, these spots offer a variety of stunning backdrops to capture your family’s joy and create lasting memories.
Curl Curl
Curl Curl Beach is a gem of the Northern Beaches, offering a long stretch of golden sand, crystal-clear waters, and beautiful vegetation-covered sand dunes. The dramatic cliffs at the northern end of the beach provide a captivating backdrop for your family portraits.
The sand dunes stretching between North and South Curly beaches offer the perfect place for play and exploration to capture candid moments of your family away from the hustle and bustle of the swimming areas, providing privacy and calm for your family photos.
Shooting during the early morning sunrise or late afternoon sunset golden hours will provide soft lighting and a tranquil atmosphere.
Narrabeen Lakes
The tranquil waters of Narrabeen Lakes offer a unique setting for family portraits. Explore the sandy beaches, jetties, and lush surroundings of the bushland to find the perfect spots. The calm lake waters provide beautiful reflections, while the surrounding park and bushlands offer a mix of natural beauty and recreational areas.
Shooting during the early morning or late afternoon will ensure the softest lighting and a peaceful ambiance. There are plenty of areas to explore making it easy to escape the crowds and busy pedestrian and cycle thoroughfares, whilst providing space for play and exploration to capture those candid, natural moments with your family.
Parks and spaces around the lake are dog friendly making this the perfect location for including your fur-baby in your family photos.
At certain times of the year there are even some beautiful floral blooms that pop up around the lake to create a truly magical setting.
Long Reef Headland
Long Reef Headland offers panoramic views of the coastline, making it a spectacular location for family portraits. The grassy cliffs, rocky outcrops, and breathtaking ocean vistas create a stunning backdrop.
Capture your family against the backdrop of crashing waves or silhouetted against the rising sun. Timing is crucial here, with the golden hours providing soft, warm light and a magical atmosphere as well as avoiding the crowds who walk around this spectacular headland each day.
This location does require some walking especially if heading down to the aquatic reserve under the headland cliff. Dogs are not permitted into the aquatic reserve under the headland so be sure to check with your photographer about where you are having your photos. Ensure everyone is capable of the physical exercise needed to reach the headland and make the steep descent and ascent to the aquatic reserve below if planning to explore the rock platform.
The Beach Rockpools & Ocean Pools
The enchanting rockpools and ocean pools around the beaches of the Northern Beaches provide another picturesque location for capturing beautiful family portraits.
The ocean-side rockpools provide a serene atmosphere and a natural backdrop of rocky formations. Capture your family exploring the rockpool, or position them on the surrounding rocks for a visually appealing composition. In still waters the reflections can be mesmerising.
Search for sea urchins and star fish in the naturally formed pools on the rock platforms. Sunrise or sunset shoots will enhance the warm colors and create a dreamy ambiance. Of course, always check the tides and ocean conditions when planning a shoot near the rockpools. These areas can be a precarious place especially with young children.
And be prepared to end the session in the warmer months, with the kids in the pool! Bring some towels and a change of clothes, because it can be hard to resist the cool waters on a hot summer morning. Sometimes it is even hard to resist for the adults!
Practical Tips
Plan your shoot during the golden hours of sunrise or sunset for the most flattering light and atmospheric conditions. This also helps to avoid crowds who love to visit the beautiful beaches year round.
Consider the tides and weather conditions when shooting at the beach to ensure safety and comfort. If the weather is going to be cold, make sure your family dresses for the conditions – cold kids don’t love having their photos taken.
Coordinate outfits that complement the natural surroundings, such as earthy tones or soft pastels.
Communicate with your photographer to discuss your vision, get their expert recommendations, and make the most of the chosen locations.
The Northern Beaches of Sydney provide an abundance of stunning locations for capturing family portraits. From the golden sands of Curl Curl Beach to the tranquil waters and bushland of Narrabeen Lakes and the dramatic cliffs of Long Reef Headland, these spots offer a range of backdrops that reflect the natural beauty of the area. By planning your shoot during the golden hours, coordinating outfits, and embracing the unique charm of each location, you can create family portraits that evoke joy, love, and the timeless beauty of the Northern Beaches of Sydney.
These locations offer diverse landscapes and backdrops, allowing you to choose the atmosphere and setting that best suits your family’s style and preferences. Remember to consider factors like lighting, privacy, accessibility, and any specific guidelines or restrictions that may apply to each location. Ultimately, the best location will depend on your personal preferences and the vision you have for your family portraits.
Top Baby Names for 2024
NSW has released their 2024 Top Baby Names! Did your babies name make the Top Names list?
2024 NSW Top Names – Boys
- Noah
- Oliver
- Theodore
- Luca
- Henry
- Leo
- Hudson
- Charlie
- Lucas
- Elijah
2024 NSW Top Names – Girls
- Charlotte
- Amelia
- Olivia
- Mia
- Isla
- Chloe
- Harper
- Hazel
- Evelyn
- Sophia
Here at Bree Hulme Photography, we had so many newborn babies come through our door last year, and even more babies up to 1 year old. Here is our list of 2024 Bree Hulme Photography Top Names for newborns who visited us last year!
2024 Bree Hulme Photography Top Newborn Names – Boys
- Nathaniel
- Cohen
- Lukas
- George
- Louie
- Charlie
- Finley
- Hudson
- Vincenzo
- Oskar
2024 Bree Hulme Photography Top Newborn Names – Girls
- Rita
- Mila
- Rey
- Marley
- London
- Millie
- Ava
- Serena
- Halle
- Savanna
And here are a few of our other favourite names of the beautiful babies who visited us for their sitter sessions or 1st birthday cake smash sessions or family sessions in 2024:
- Remy
- Will
- Finn
- Noah
- Tyler
- Ruby
- Grace
- Ivy
- Lily
- Ava
Are you choosing your baby name right now? What are some of the names on the top of your list? Already in 2025 we have seen a few new names with the babies who have come into the studio for newborn portraits.
Let us know your favourite baby names! And if you are planning a baby name, don’t forget to book in for your newborn portraits session! You can see some more of our newborn portraits in the Newborn Portraits Gallery and contact us to book in for a session here.
Is your baby already here? Then book in for a Sitter session or some family portraits whilst they are still chubby little babies! You can see some of our older baby portraits here!